It probably won't surprise you to hear that I agree with all of this. I'm fairly sure that your reference to lecturing people as a forum helper includes lecturing me. 🙂
I have trouble being as diplomatic and thorough in covering bases as you were here, so I'm glad you said it for me in way that should only rankle particularly sensitive or defensive folks.
The only other thing I'll say, with sincerity and regret, is that Chaosium's way of doing things has turned me off to the degree that I've deleted most of my bookmarks and try not to think about it or them these days, as it only raises my blood pressure. I've been a fan of RQ for 35+ years. I've also been a fan of TTRPGs for that long, and I've never seen a company this (in my opinion) mismanaged.